Here is a simple form of meditation that will help you to be clear minded and self controlled at all times (I Peter 4:7). Simply say, “Dear God.” and then relax your body and your breathing whether sitting or taking a slow thoughtful walk. Do not try to control your mind rigidly. The more you do this, usually the more your mind shall wander. Do not try to focus on one thought and exclude all others. Again your mind will naturally reject this kind of rigidity.
Instead let your thoughts flow freely on any subject you are interested in or centered upon at the moment. It can be a problem that worries you and you are seeking a solution to it. Let the thoughts that come into your mind flow freely. Do not judge them and say I should not be thinking this way but in some other way.
Instead observe your thoughts. Become aware of them. It is a law of physics that observation of sub-atomic particles changes their behavior. And so it is mentally. The objective, consciously aware observation of our thoughts as we let them flow past us changes the power assigned to them. By observation we learn that our thoughts are not reality.
Much of our suffering in life is due to our taking our thoughts about our experience as reality. We may be rejected in life and rejection is painful. But far more hurtful than the actual act of rejection is our thoughts about that rejection and how it may happen again. If we think, “I did not deserve this. This is so unjust. Who else hates me? How can I bear this? How awful it will be when I have to face them again. What will they do to me next?” Then we increase our suffering and pain ten fold.
But if we become aware of our thoughts and in observation of them realize that they are not real; they are only thoughts and we dismiss them. Watch them dissipate into nothingness because we have dismissed them. Then we can accept the actual rejection as just a part of life and we embrace it and take it into the center of our being.
If we by this form of meditation can refrain from judging any event of pain that happens to us as good or bad, then we diminish our pain and increase our joy. Let us ask of the events that happen to us, “What can I learn from this that will help me to do good.” Doing this not only relieves our suffering but opens our hearts to compassion towards all creatures and we become united to the compassion of God.



